Well, it was Amber who first contacted me as he was on my filtered list (because of his height specification). He found everything that i had written about myself quite satisfactory and so he decided to give a try. I happened to check my filtered list and found his proflie, and started wondering why did i ever put filter. I found his profile quite interested and thought of contacting him. Thats how we exchanged mail, since both of ur were priviledged member, we could easily contact each other. After few exchange of mails discussing what exactly we want for our life, Amber wanted to talk to me. We spoke for about 2 hours on our first call. That one call made Amber decide to proceed further as he was quite at ease while talking with me. He didnt feel that he is talking to some stanger. Then during diwali he decided to make a trip to India and meet me. We met and talked the whole day and the next day he met my parents, found very good family values. He then finalised and asked me if i want to marry him. I had been interacting with many prospects and i found him to be the most decent guy and resepectful person than anyone else. Since both of us wee divorcee, we initially did discuss about what went wrong and later decided that this should not effect our future and hence have completely erased our past and started our new life. We are so happy together and now we keep on wondering what took us so long to meet each other!!